We have all heard the great advice. “Don’t mix business and pleasure” and “Don’t get into business with your family.” This is especially true in real estate. Family dynamics can hinder clear communication because we don’t speak our mind or we don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. We may let something go because we don’t want to look bad, or we may trust a family member and assume they are taking care of something that we don’t mention. This can lead to stress, frustration and strained relationships.

Consider how you will feel after a deal is done. What if things don’t go well? If a family member makes a mistake, it can lead to resentment. Family relations are often damaged when a real estate deal goes bad. It happens because we tend to make emotional decisions, and family dynamics can make it worse. We may be less assertive, or not mention something because we are distracted. We might miss something important.

“But,” you may ask, “How will my family member feel if I use another agent?” Nobody wants to hurt the feelings of a loved one. Feelings of guilt or obligation can stand in the way of making the best choice, which is to hire an unrelated professional. This is one of the greatest values we offer our clients. They tell family members, “We got help from Letsfindmyagent.com. They found our agent using data and interviews, and we didn’t participate.” This shifts the dynamic and helps preserve family relationships.

Please feel free ot sift through our blog for tips on how to find an agent, or just reach out and let us help with a free agent search. We can save you time and help keep your family relationships intact.